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[success]If you plan on being anything less than you are capable of being, you will probably be unhappy all the days of your life. ~ Abraham Maslow[/success]
You’ve just had an experience that got on your last nerve.
Your latest and greatest project was a huge bust.
Your car died, a sudden, unexpected, death.
You had a miserable day. Everything that could go wrong did.
You were the dumpee or dumper.
Basically life sucks. Nothing feels good.
And here you are sitting in your poopy pants, in your ‘woe is me’ state of mind.
Well sitting in poopy pants probably isn’t all that comfortable. Think crying babies.
And worse, we’re planting seeds of discontent and you’d better believe we’ll be reaping the harvest some soon day.
As an added incentive…if you needed one, The HeartMath Institute conducted an experiment that our feelings and emotions have a direct effect on our DNA, which in turn affects the matter in our world.
How cool is that?
It showed that when the experimenter felt love, compassion, appreciation, forgiveness and understanding in his heart, his DNA relaxed and elongated itself. When the experimenter felt fear-based emotions like anger, hate, jealousy, or unhappiness his DNA tightened. Apparently when our DNA is relaxed or loose, our immune system functions better.
What’s to be done? What can we do and what should we do?
My last post touched on putting judgement on one side, and the day I came up with the idea I found it exciting. Even though, as we all know I didn’t come out of it smelling of roses.
This is such a juicy topic that I had to come back to it.
Imagine the idea.
Think about building your relationships, your finances, your health, or your business without judgement. Think about the different connection we’d have with everyone. Think about a world of co-operation instead of competition.
Sounds good doesn’t it?
What’s the difference between sitting playing our tiny violin of self pity, awash in life suckiness versus living a life where we see that not only can we have as big a piece of pie as we want but the pie is unlimited? And we don’t have to judge, good or bad. It just is. Hmmm.
And what if we actually lived our life in a spirit of co-operation instead of competition, we’d see that we didn’t have to literally pursue things, instead we might see that they actually manifested as an expression of our inner beliefs. Another hmmm.
I believe this to be true.
Life would be sooo much easier if we would simply learn to live and operate the laws of life, the laws of nature. To live in co-operation and harmony with one another and the abundance that freely flows to us all.
If your heart is set on love, success, financial freedom, great health and vitality you must begin to see beneath all the seemingly wrong conditions in your life. It’s time to pull the plug on any pity parties and begin to live and act in a new and greater way.
It’s time to move ourselves beyond the poor perspective that we have. If we want another piece of the pie, we make a bigger one and share it, so there’s plenty for everyone. We don’t have to outperform, outwit or outsell anyone. We’re dealing with the infinite here..there’s plenty for us all when we come from the spirit of co-operation.
We have to change our perspective…have a shift in the way we view the world…get a new point of view.
Begin to think from the perspective of having so much that it’s easy to give something away. Begin to live in the assumption that we have plenty of new ideas that benefit us and others.
If we stopped judging our success, our bodies, our relationships our abundance not only will we have more, but everyone else at the table will as well. And removing judgement makes room for something so much greater and so much more expansive.
We love win wins. Think of what’s happening to our DNA.
Whilst there’s always a free flow of abundance in our Universe, we don’t get something for nothing. First, we have to be the person we want to be. We have to live in gratitude for what we do have, choose to feel what we want to feel about any given situation.
We’ve been given the wonderful gift of freedom of choice. Let’s use it.
Everything in our world works through law.
If we’re seeking to get something for nothing, it won’t work out well for us.
If we don’t honour our commitments, it won’t work out well for us.
If we seek to hold back because we’re afraid we don’t have enough, or we might get hurt, it won’t work out well for us.
We have to be a full participant in the free flow of abundance and growth that is always beckoning to us and we’ll intuitively know when to say yes and when to say no to any given situation because our decisions come, not from limitation or fear or scarcity, but from our oneness with all that is. Our oneness with each other.
And we’ll be blessed and we’ll stop feeling that life sucks. And our DNA will be happy.
Love to hear YOUR ways of keeping happy DNA.
Encourage one another.