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Basically every desire, every goal you have stems from the desire to be happy.
Life’s richness doesn’t always come from achieving your goal. In the process of fulfilling your desires you evolve your being, becoming the amazing, brilliant, wonderful person you were intended to be.
Part of life’s magic is the belief that your dreams can come true. And once you understand that it takes the same amount of energy to have a miserable day as to have one filled with joy and excitement you can train yourself to use your energy to enjoy a daily dose of happiness.
In the end it’s simply accepting which one is more likely to lead to fulfilling your dreams.
Our challenge is that we’re really good at focusing on our shortcomings. We practice it almost daily.
Far too many of us live by chance, not by choice. Don’t do this to yourself.
You can choose the thoughts you think, the beliefs you hold, the assumptions you make, the things you accept as true. These are the stuff dreams are made of.
The difference between those living more of their dreams than the rest of us is their ability to direct their thoughts, to use the power of their focus.
Know that you, and only you, get to say how you’ll spend the rest of your life. And if you’re tired of watching your dreams slip away remember that they only die because they are starved of the nourishment they need to flourish.
You can live a rich, happy, fulfilling life when you commit to breathing life into those dreams of yours.
It’s time to put your foot down and check out some of the reasons that might be holding you back.
1.You don’t ask quality questions
When I was 15 I used to ask myself ‘is this all there is’? It’s a terrible question and It took years and then more years to discover that there was much more to life than I’d been capable of seeing.
Learn to ask better questions if you’re ready to live the life of your dreams.
Am I living like I mean it?
What is the one thing I’d most like to change about my life?
How can I gain more control over life?
What one thing could I do today that would make a difference tomorrow?
Am I proud of the life I’m living?
What’s stopping me?
Do I fall asleep every night with a sense of satisfaction?
2.It’s essential to raise your standards
Decide what you’ll no longer tolerate in your life.
Write down what’s no longer acceptable for you to do and then add all the things you want to do and the person you’re choosing to become. And then begin to change yourself, one belief at a time.
Pick a belief, any belief that’s holding you back and begin to affirm the complete opposite. Make your self-talk confirm this is who you now are. Don’t minimize yourself. You are one with the divine.
Don’t be afraid to turn off the tv, to read more, to meditate or contemplate more. You’ll increase the quality of your life by holding yourself to higher standards and adopting and practicing new empowering beliefs.
You can’t turn back the clock but you can begin anew. The journey to your dreams requires that you look back on the experiences of life and be willing to ditch everything that didn’t work well. Your past contains the wisdom for your future.
Don’t wait, life is here now, take a risk and live it at a higher level.
3.You never change your mind
To change your life you have to change your mind. Remember your mind is a powerful, magnetic thing. When you fill it with thoughts that feel good your life will change.
It might be hard, but not nearly as dangerous as sticking with the attitudes of mind that got you in this fix in the first place. Be brave. Be willing to explore the darkness and you’ll discover the incredible power of your inner light.
If you can imagine it, you can live it.
Remember within you is a dream that you were meant to live, that only you can live because in this vast world you are amazingly, awesomely unique.
4.Deciding what’s really important
If you’re life is cluttered. If you can’t distinguish between the important and urgent, chances are your life is pretty unmanageable and overwhelming.
Don’t get blinded by the needless distractions of today, keep your eye on the endgame. You’re more likely to give up on your dreams if you maintain a short term focus. Believe in yourself. Believe anything is possible. Believe and trust your intuition and follow your dream.
Success or failure depends on those little choices you make every day. Commit to long term results by knowing what you want, seeing the vision every day and give up the short term quick fix.
Stand guard at the gate of your mind and don’t let anything enter unless it’s helpful, supportive, encouraging, inspiring or uplifting.
5.Your attention isn’t on the best
If you knew and really believed that your thoughts were creating your future, would you change any of them?
Your thoughts radiate outward like a beacon, attracting the events and experiences of tomorrow. Whatever you’re telling yourself today, will energize or discourage you.
Instead of thinking of everything that could go wrong put your attention on what could go right. Neither has happened yet, why use your precious energy creating something you’ll be sorry for down the road?
Find ways to open your heart to new and bigger ideas.
Challenge your current view of life. Don’t mistake the good for excellence. It takes courage, but you are endowed with everything you need to change your life, to change your world…one thought, one belief at a time.
6.Excuses are easier than accepting your power
We make an error in judgment and then we go through life trying to excuse ourselves for it, rather than accepting that we simply made a mistake.
We blame somebody else, we blame circumstances, instead of saying:
“I am the only one that has any power in the processes of my mind and what I have thought has brought me where I am this very minute. I am responsible for my thoughts and by changing my thinking, I can change my life.”
Great outcomes are the result of doing more than your excuses allow, risking more than you’ve dared to risk before, and dreaming more than others think is good for you.
How can you possibly get what you want when you’re focused on all the excuses as to why you don’t have it? Eliminate your excuses and you’ll just have to live with being unbelievably awesome.
Ultimately life isn’t about what you can do, it’s what you WILL do. Before your dreams can come true, you have to dream them.
Is there a dream you’ve been waiting to live? You’ve got a chance to give it more energy and power by speaking it out loud, in the comments section…I’d love to see you in the comments on this one.
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