I’m pretty good at using these laws of life, I managed to manifest a blooming mess throughout my life, using them in the negative.  But hey, since I know I’m good at it, why aren’t I using them to manifest better things?   This is what my friend asked me yesterday as we had a nice cup of tea together.  He can be pretty hard on himself as so many of us can when faced with all the ‘stuff’ we don’t like about our life or ourselves.   But it’s not helpful.  How many times have you been successful in beating yourself up about something and found wonderful changes taking place?  Hmmm, just a guess…never. We can’t fight negativity with more negativity, it’s like sitting without the light on, in the dark, making it darker still and then wondering why there’s no light.  Pushing against what we don’t like just…