[success]Have the courage to say no.  Have the courage to face the truth.  Do the right thing because it is right.  These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity. ~ W. Clement Stone[/success] It’s taken a while, but I think I finally got it.  Just like Eliza of My Fair Lady fame, “By George I think she’s got it.”  What earth shattering thing can I finally do?  Can I climb mountain peaks?  Err, no, I still have a fear of heights.  Can I participate in Iron Man competitions.  A definite no.  Can I bring world peace.  Sadly, no.  Nothing so grand. What I can do, which in the scheme of things isn’t exactly monumental, but in my life can be categorized in the wow zone, is say “No”, with grace and ease. I didn’t get here overnight, believe me.  For years I suffered because of over-commitment…I couldn’t…