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You’d like to have a truly successful, positive, abundant and happy life…wouldn’t you?
So what’s getting in the way?
I hate to tell you this. But. You are!
And it’s not okay that you’re not living the life you deserve. There’s no reason that you should do this any more.
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If your reality doesn’t match your dreams remember this…you have the ability, and the power to affect your reality.
When things just aren’t going your way, no matter how hard you try, you know it’s time to create a new reality.
Don’t get hung up on the difficulties of making changes, it’s often a matter of knowing what it means to you to live more abundantly. It’s not until you give it any real thought that you open the door to infinite possibilities.
1.The biggest stumbling block
As a baby or young child, you busily recorded all experiences as reality. Things that you saw, things you heard, situations you were involved in all being recorded in your little mind.
And those unconscious programmes that you unwittingly recorded are still running your life. They’re building and maintaining your current reality. Which means every event, every person, every experience, every day.
Maybe you picked up that life is tough, money was hard to come by, and you’d better plan for the worst because it’s sure to come!
If this is you, it’s definitely time you put a stop to those old stories of how life is.
You don’t have to surrender your dreams because someone close to you said that you’d never achieve them.
What you must do is change the way you see yourself…this is what it takes to change your world and to really live the way you want to.
Is not that hard to do. But you need persistence.
When you were young you practiced over and over again. Even if you failed.
Learning to walk, you’d fall over and over and over. But you got back up and tried again and you succeeded.
Same with learning to talk.
Your first attempts probably only had your nearest and dearest with any clue what you were trying to say. But you kept trying.
Until eventually, as you persisted, you found out which sounds got you what you wanted.
You hadn’t learned that you couldn’t do these things. You hadn’t been told it was hard. And you never felt criticized for not getting it right first time. Nor did you fear failure. That’s who you still can be.
3.What do you really want?
The world really does sit at your feet. But you have to get after it as though your very life depended on it. ‘Cos it does.
If you knew you could have anything you wanted. Anything. What would you choose?
Most people have no clue what it is they really want or where they plan on going, make sure this isn’t you.
Think seriously about how you’d like your life to be. How you want to be.
Who you want to be more than anything else in the world. And then write down the ten things you want most of all. Write down twenty or thirty or more…and winnow them down to your top ten.
Then start to track your day and see how much effort you are putting into your life that don’t bring you the results you want. Or worse, don’t really bring any results at all.
Often you’ll find that it’s just about 20% of your focused efforts that actually bring results. Make up your mind to stop living with disappointing results, and start to live beyond them.
How willing are you? Will you stick it out when anyone else would have given up ages ago? Determine that you can and your success is assured.
Don’t let what others think stand in your way. Don’t allow your old limitations to stop you and the Universe will respond.
The first step is to become energetically dedicated to yourself. This means self-care…and yes it’s a necessary component of a more wonderful reality.
It means concentrating on your needs, on the things that bring joy to your spirit. It means focusing on projects that are heartfelt for you and taking the time to acknowledge you have special gifts and talents that the world needs. And it’s your job to develop them.
Once you can accept this level of nurturing attention you’ll discover life takes on new meaning. You’ll have altered your agreement with reality and have a wonderful tool to use in other areas of life.
Your very consistency will make you stand head and shoulders above the crowd.
All you need is to take tiny steps towards building this energy in your life and slowly but surely, one day you’ll discover you’re at the top of your mountain looking down on your brand new reality. Go on. You can do this.
Your turn…I’d love to hear from you in the comments below. What must you do to create your new reality?
Encourage one another.